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A feeling diary is a concise, personal record used to notice, track, and reflect on your child’s emotional life. It’s a practical tool for increasing their self-awareness, identifying their patterns, and supporting their emotional regulation. Entries typically note the emotion experienced, the context, intensity, bodily sensations, thoughts, and any actions taken or desired responses. Over time, a feeling diary helps reveal triggers, cycles, and progress toward healthier coping.
Core elements of a feeling diary
Date and time: Anchors the entry and helps detect daily or weekly patterns.
Situation or trigger: Briefly describe what happened or what you were thinking before the emotion arose.
Emotion label(s): Name the feeling(s) as specifically as possible (e.g., anxious, disappointed, relieved, irritated).
Intensity: Rate how strong the feeling felt on a simple scale (0–10).
Bodily sensations: Note physical responses (tension, racing heart, fatigue, warmth).
Thoughts and beliefs: Capture key thoughts or judgments tied to the emotion.
Behaviour or response: Describe what you did, said, or avoided in reaction.
Alternative responses or coping strategies: Record what you might try next time or what helped calm you.
Reflection or learning: Summarize any insight, theme, or goal for change.
When to use it
Daily: A short nightly review can consolidate awareness and support your child’s gradual change.
In the moment: Brief entries during heightened feelings can help capture immediate details of your child’s emotional wellbeing.
After therapy or techniques: To measure how strategies learned in therapy influence experience.
Benefits
Greater understanding of your child’s emotional wellbeing.
Greater emotional clarity for your child: Naming and rating feelings reduces confusion and intensity.
Pattern recognition: Repeated entries reveal triggers, cycles, and progress.
Improved communication: Clearer self-understanding helps your child explain feelings to others.
Enhanced coping: Tracking which strategies work builds a practical toolkit for distress tolerance.
Supports therapy goals: Provides accurate data for systemic or other therapeutic work.
Practical tips
Keep it brief and consistent: Even a few lines daily are effective.
Use specific emotion words: Replace broad labels like “bad” with precise terms.
Combine formats: Use paper, an app, or voice notes—choose what you’ll maintain.
Review regularly: Weekly reviews help spot trends and inform goals.
Be non-judgmental: Record observations without self-criticism to foster curiosity and change.
A feeling diary is a simple, evidence-informed practice that turns fleeting emotions into useful information, supporting emotional growth, resilience, and clearer communication—whether used independently or alongside therapy.
A feeling diary is a concise, personal record used to notice, track, and reflect on your emotional life. It’s a practical tool for increasing self-awareness, identifying patterns, and supporting emotional regulation. Entries typically note the emotion experienced, the context, intensity, bodily sensations, thoughts, and any actions taken or desired responses. Over time, a feeling diary helps reveal triggers, cycles, and progress toward healthier coping.
Core elements of a feeling diary
Date and time: Anchors the entry and helps detect daily or weekly patterns.
Situation or trigger: Briefly describe what happened or what you were thinking before the emotion arose.
Emotion label(s): Name the feeling(s) as specifically as possible (e.g., anxious, disappointed, relieved, irritated).
Intensity: Rate how strong the feeling felt on a simple scale (0–10).
Bodily sensations: Note physical responses (tension, racing heart, fatigue, warmth).
Thoughts and beliefs: Capture key thoughts or judgments tied to the emotion.
Behaviour or response: Describe what you did, said, or avoided in reaction.
Alternative responses or coping strategies: Record what you might try next time or what helped calm you.
Reflection or learning: Summarize any insight, theme, or goal for change.
When to use it
Daily: A short nightly review can consolidate awareness and support gradual change.
In the moment: Brief entries during heightened feelings help capture immediate details.
After therapy or techniques: To measure how strategies learned in therapy influence experience.
Benefits
Greater emotional clarity: Naming and rating feelings reduces confusion and intensity.
Pattern recognition: Repeated entries reveal triggers, cycles, and progress.
Improved communication: Clearer self-understanding helps you explain feelings to others or your therapist.
Enhanced coping: Tracking which strategies work builds a practical toolkit for distress tolerance.
Supports therapy goals: Provides accurate data for systemic or other therapeutic work.
Practical tips
Keep it brief and consistent: Even a few lines daily are effective.
Use specific emotion words: Replace broad labels like “bad” with precise terms.
Combine formats: Use paper, an app, or voice notes—choose what you’ll maintain.
Review regularly: Weekly reviews help spot trends and inform goals.
Be non-judgmental: Record observations without self-criticism to foster curiosity and change.
A feeling diary is a simple, evidence-informed practice that turns fleeting emotions into useful information, supporting emotional growth, resilience, and clearer communication—whether used independently or alongside therapy.
A feeling diary is a concise, personal record used to notice, track, and reflect on your emotional life. It’s a practical tool for increasing self-awareness, identifying patterns, and supporting emotional regulation. Entries typically note the emotion experienced, the context, intensity, bodily sensations, thoughts, and any actions taken or desired responses. Over time, a feeling diary helps reveal triggers, cycles, and progress toward healthier coping.
Core elements of a feeling diary
Date and time: Anchors the entry and helps detect daily or weekly patterns.
Situation or trigger: Briefly describe what happened or what you were thinking before the emotion arose.
Emotion label(s): Name the feeling(s) as specifically as possible (e.g., anxious, disappointed, relieved, irritated).
Intensity: Rate how strong the feeling felt on a simple scale (0–10).
Bodily sensations: Note physical responses (tension, racing heart, fatigue, warmth).
Thoughts and beliefs: Capture key thoughts or judgments tied to the emotion.
Behaviour or response: Describe what you did, said, or avoided in reaction.
Alternative responses or coping strategies: Record what you might try next time or what helped calm you.
Reflection or learning: Summarize any insight, theme, or goal for change.
When to use it
Daily: A short nightly review can consolidate awareness and support gradual change.
In the moment: Brief entries during heightened feelings help capture immediate details.
After therapy or techniques: To measure how strategies learned in therapy influence experience.
Benefits
Greater emotional clarity: Naming and rating feelings reduces confusion and intensity.
Pattern recognition: Repeated entries reveal triggers, cycles, and progress.
Improved communication: Clearer self-understanding helps you explain feelings to others or your therapist.
Enhanced coping: Tracking which strategies work builds a practical toolkit for distress tolerance.
Supports therapy goals: Provides accurate data for systemic or other therapeutic work.
Practical tips
Keep it brief and consistent: Even a few lines daily are effective.
Use specific emotion words: Replace broad labels like “bad” with precise terms.
Combine formats: Use paper, an app, or voice notes—choose what you’ll maintain.
Review regularly: Weekly reviews help spot trends and inform goals.
Be non-judgmental: Record observations without self-criticism to foster curiosity and change.
A feeling diary is a simple, evidence-informed practice that turns fleeting emotions into useful information, supporting emotional growth, resilience, and clearer communication—whether used independently or alongside therapy.
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